You'd imagine in a cageless facility for cats that there's one question we would probably ask on a daily basis:
"Why can't you guys just all get along?!" And, to a large extent . . . . you'd be right.
What you probably wouldn't expect is the other question we often ask: "Why is it you two get along so well?"
It's often interesting and fun to observe when cats are allowed to choose their own feline friends. (instead of us surprising them out of the blue with a new playmate).
At first, the relationships may seem a little unlikely (and sometimes they are) but, usually when we take a closer look at how they match up we find it's really not so surprising.
So, if you're thinking about adopting a companion for your cat you might be wondering what makes for a good match.
Although you can't predict with 100% certainty if your new kitty companion will be greeted with open paws - or open claws, keeping in mind certain considerations will give you the greatest chance of success that your kitties will develop a lifelong friendship.
First, you need to consider the personality and temperament of your cat - would your cat really like a companion or does he prefer to be an only cat? Cat's that are exceptionally territorial, aggressive, frightened of most things or just have trouble adjusting to any changes in their lives may not do well with a companion.
elderly cats or cats with illnesses would also be best left as only cats as the added stress can be difficult on their health.
If you do decide that your cat might benefit from having a feline friend then you want to choose a cat with a complementary personality.
If your cat is outgoing and assertive - look for a second cat who won't compete with that- choose a cat that's in the middle of the spectrum, not too assertive and not too timid either.
If you have a more aggressive cat - this type will do better with a self assured calm cat that would not allow himself to be overpowered by the more dominant one.
And a timid cat will do best with a cat who doesn't insist on being in charge.
A happy go lucky, confident kitty can be a calming influence on cats with personalities on either end of the spectrum.
And if you're wondering whether to go female or male, well that's not as important as getting the right match with personality and temperament. However, cats do seem to do better with cats their own age and that have a similar size and build.
Most importantly -choose carefully and don't make any quick decisions.
If you don't have any cats and want to adopt two- consider looking for already bonded pairs in rescues. These kitties often sit in shelters longer because people looking to adopt two cats aren't as plentiful as homes looking to add just one more.
It's often a sad dilemma for rescues - whether to break up bonded pairs in hopes they'll find loving homes separately or to hold out longer in hopes they'll be re-homed together (unfortunately while tying up space that could be used to rescue other cats).
We currently have two sets of pairs in the Sanctuary that are looking for homes together - both friendships formed at the Sanctuary.
She - a timid 4 month old kitten that was found living outside has had a difficult adjustment living at the Sanctuary.
He- a 2 1/2 yo super playful and full of energy guy that's also had a bit of a hard time making friends at the Sanctuary.
Still not quite trusting of people Ashley found a loving mentor in Frankie- and somehow she stole his heart. Following him around taking comfort in his confidence- they played and interacted well- and have now become great friends.
He (sterling) -A 2 1/2 y.o. handsome love bug also found himself having a hard time making friends at the Sanctuary.She (Charley) - an 8 month old kitten overlooked time and time again by adopters- is also super loving and playful -and only just a little skittish.
Our hope is that both of these couples can remain friends and continue with their lives in new homes ........together.
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